I’m not a psychologist, but I have some words that may help. Phobias are something that affect a lot of people, especially situational phobia. I don’t know a cure for it, but I do know words of encouragement.

You mentioned heaven, so I think it’s safe to assume you believe in God. You don’t have to worry anything about heaven.

Remember that when it’s your time to go, and you get there, all your fears, your pain, your sorrow will be washed away and replaced with nothing but God’s love and love for Him.

Though the fear might hold you back from things on Earth, don’t ever be afraid of God’s gift of eternal life. Heaven is the safest place you could be, and God, by his power and grace, will remove that fear from your heart.

For now, keep in mind that He will also help you to get past this fear while you’re here. I would recommend seeing a psychologist about it, since they know best, but also always know that God will help you overcome your fear.

Trust in Him and there’s nothing you can’t do.
Philippians 4:13 says “I can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me.” And that means ALL things. You can do it!

I really hope this helps, even though it’s not really psychology-based lol. Good luck, and God bless

But now in 2011 it is getting worst. Because t my school we went to a field trip to the Federal Bank and at the bank their is a flight of stairs to the 3rd floor and i waled up those stairs i felled like i was going to heart attack.

And also if i am really scared of heights how will i go to heaven if heaven is way up in the sky now that is my biggest fear.

And finally i always get scared walking over bridges i had to walk over this long bridge like a pedestrian bridge with cars and when i walked on there it felt like it was in the end of the world for me.

Please reply back im begging you